Hello and welcome to ExamPundit. This is Anubhab! Your mentor, admin and “Dada” :). Today I am writing this for all of you, and I am not copy pasting from any motivational site. Each day, when some result come out, I see few commenting they got in, they wanna focus on the interview, and on the other hand I see sad faces, commenting about not getting in. It makes me sad, not because you could not crack but you are losing faith in yourself.
I am not a great writer, I write real bad, but read it anyways. So, what I am saying here is that I feel bad when you people loose trust in yourself. You work hard, which reflects in your regular participation, so basically you should not be sad. Its not your fault that marginally someone was better.
But it is a fact that when we do not win for 2-3-4-5 or even 6-7 times we loose hope, start believing that we are not good enough. I know its normal, its in our nature, we are really sensitive when it comes to loss. But IT DOES NOT MATTER how many times did you loose. Once you clear that dream exam, all of this will become an inspirational story, a success story in some website. Its like the coin, today your neighbor is giving your example that you are not succeeding and how hard this thing is and suddenly you clear one and get the job *whoosh*, they are giving your example as “Hard Work, Dedication”.
Why am I typing all this? All I want to say is that all the criticism you face, really DOES NOT Matter.
Now, let me tell you something, Nobody can say that they know everything, unless they are fools. May be your English is weak, but your mathematics is much more stronger than others. Or may be there are students, who’s Maths and English are both problematic. By giving at least 2-3 exams, you can understand that you can do good in at least ONE topic. That topic is the key to happiness. Trust me, that is!
For example, You are really good at Maths, and you are not that good in English or in Reasoning. If you keep focusing on the things you are not good at, you are never gonna get any kind of motivation. Our heart keeps telling the brain that we can, and brain, like a grumpy teacher, tells you that no you cannot, it is impossible.
So how do you start believing that you can? Its very simple Start your day with the strongest thing, start with your favorite subject and do it for at least an hour. It will make your brain positive and when you go for the hard ones it will help you think that “Ho jayega, koi baat nahi, yeh thoda tough he”. This will help you to learn with positivity, because its all about self belief. We belong to the Country who got Independence by minimum violence!
Enough of free gyaan! The bottomline, DO NOT Loose Faith in yourself. Trust yourself that you can. Stay away from people who only points out the wrong in everything. They are the worst and they will bury your motivation with their pessimism. Do Not Pay Heed to People. They keep talking, once you achieve they are the first one to Praise!
If your Mom, Dad ever doubts your chances, keep calm and tell them to believe in you, give you some time and let you focus. It took Sachin Tendulkar over an year to score 100th ton.
I am not a great writer, I write real bad, but read it anyways. So, what I am saying here is that I feel bad when you people loose trust in yourself. You work hard, which reflects in your regular participation, so basically you should not be sad. Its not your fault that marginally someone was better.
But it is a fact that when we do not win for 2-3-4-5 or even 6-7 times we loose hope, start believing that we are not good enough. I know its normal, its in our nature, we are really sensitive when it comes to loss. But IT DOES NOT MATTER how many times did you loose. Once you clear that dream exam, all of this will become an inspirational story, a success story in some website. Its like the coin, today your neighbor is giving your example that you are not succeeding and how hard this thing is and suddenly you clear one and get the job *whoosh*, they are giving your example as “Hard Work, Dedication”.
Why am I typing all this? All I want to say is that all the criticism you face, really DOES NOT Matter.
Now, let me tell you something, Nobody can say that they know everything, unless they are fools. May be your English is weak, but your mathematics is much more stronger than others. Or may be there are students, who’s Maths and English are both problematic. By giving at least 2-3 exams, you can understand that you can do good in at least ONE topic. That topic is the key to happiness. Trust me, that is!
For example, You are really good at Maths, and you are not that good in English or in Reasoning. If you keep focusing on the things you are not good at, you are never gonna get any kind of motivation. Our heart keeps telling the brain that we can, and brain, like a grumpy teacher, tells you that no you cannot, it is impossible.
So how do you start believing that you can? Its very simple Start your day with the strongest thing, start with your favorite subject and do it for at least an hour. It will make your brain positive and when you go for the hard ones it will help you think that “Ho jayega, koi baat nahi, yeh thoda tough he”. This will help you to learn with positivity, because its all about self belief. We belong to the Country who got Independence by minimum violence!
Enough of free gyaan! The bottomline, DO NOT Loose Faith in yourself. Trust yourself that you can. Stay away from people who only points out the wrong in everything. They are the worst and they will bury your motivation with their pessimism. Do Not Pay Heed to People. They keep talking, once you achieve they are the first one to Praise!
If your Mom, Dad ever doubts your chances, keep calm and tell them to believe in you, give you some time and let you focus. It took Sachin Tendulkar over an year to score 100th ton.
I hope you all not be sad! Love you all! Take care!! 🙂 🙂
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